Insomia

Yesterday night i slept very early about 11.45, but 1 hour later i felt hungry then wake up and have a milo, well....as usual, online to make me sleepy. But.......it doesn't work, even felt tired.

after that, rolling on the bed? find the right spot........yea, it works, but is already 3 something on the morning.......waste 4 hour of sleep time

morning 7 something wake up and go to class...felt cannot concentrate at all.....keep blank out

study journal also......not so efficient

about 2pm, when i was ready to go pantai hospital to help my client to claim the R&B(room and board) allowance and Surgery fee, Operation theater and anesthetic fee.........my car battery has dry out, i use to keep a spare battery in my car, but not today......as i return it to my father, and at this time, the time i need it, it wasn't around......sad case

now sleepy.....work yet done.....FYP kantoi

Thanks a lot to my best friend, Mr. Edward Gan......i able have a ride to send my battery to my brother to recharge, oh yeah.......but is alright, luckily wasn't a big problem at all, just tired and sleepy.....haha

My best friend Mr Nelson, The National Water Polo Player back to melaka today....YES! haha.....luckily i have a lot of best friends

YES!

FYP Time!

Oh damn me, Tuesday is my dateline for step 1 submission included Introduction and Research Framework and yet I haven't finish. Still blogging at the same time, My brother from Singapore also back to Melaka and i need to help him for doing something, see men........When i most busiest, that time also most thing to do T.T......i better start do it, hehe

The Missing 12 (part 1)

Is been a long time......how long? Long enough for a lady become a mother, haha......i'm so bad. Eventually is already a year since the last post that i write myself. Well, how i suppose to start? Hmm......as far as i can remember is preparing for a sharing concert. It is the second semester of the academic year.

The November(Oh yes! is my birthday)

Just like normal, a event freak, looking for challenges, and minimize the risk(so that i won't get into trouble myself at the end, don't blindly and never took the risk into account!). So everything was started zero, we advise and discuss every single detail. Of course, there are also certain people who unwillingly accept the concept and not cooperate, end up multi-tasking again. We were bless that we, a group of committee included me about 7-8 person were fully committed to this sharing concert. It won't trouble me much, because i trust the team and we are truly focus on what we believe on.

Yes, I have to say this. The 1st step to "make it happen" is strong believe in ourselves. Even though, we face a lot of disagreement by others. Somehow, we not focus on them because when is risk is right we should take it as opportunity not afraid this, or scare fail. Our focus is success, the more we listen to negative the more we focus on fail not success. As mention just now, take the right risk! Another thing is, we should turn the negative advise as the risk to take into account plus! turn their de-motivation into the word to motivate ourselves, be positive minded and don't hate them! By any way, they are not wrong, just their thought, and respect their words and advice. ^^

During the process and preparation, we even meeting and pre-paration till late night. At one moment, i just realize that got a person that attract me so much. Yes, i done a lot of event so far, but only this time i got attracted by a girl in organizing event. WOW, why? it is because her attitude change 180, I felt like in-love. Just don't know why, her commitment is awesome. Too excellence till i can't explain. WOW, Each time i recall the moment, how sweet it is, felt like sucking drug, drunk.....awwww, feel so good.........Sad case, she turn back normal after the event. My feeling also turn back normal.

The preparation even run so insane, one day sleep 3 hours for 2 days, the rest of the time is work! and Yes! our hard work finally pay off, the decoration also awesome, of course la, is the fruit of team work ma, haha......Everything was run smoothly, so good and nice. A memorable ;event, beautiful! That day is my manager wedding's dinner, i skip it; the next day is taxation mid-term, i also didn't study and get 2 mark for that only, T.T

The next 2 day was my birthday, i felt like having the longest birthday celebration streak, is 3 days continuously celebrate by my friends, that's cool.....thank you my friends, thank you T.T. And the story yet finish, we also go Kuantan for 2 days at the same week, haha. ^^

The Brand

Ouch......i think i step my own tail, after so long for not update my blog, after i see through my blog....i found out, i'm so immature, so bad tempered, low EQ....but is ok, let the past be history, it is shame to keep it all, but is it worth to keep it to remind my self, to moving forward. I will share out the past 10 months story......to be continue

10 Tips for Approaching Single Women

Most guys get caught up in guessing what to say; here's what they really should do

What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?

When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.

Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.

Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:

1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here.

Make your comment immediate to the situation

Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.

2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.

3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.

4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.

5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.

6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.

7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.

8. Do not fidget. Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.

9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like "

I hope you saved some turkey for me

I hope you saved some turkey for me," followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends -- notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.

10. Lean away from her. A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.

The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power.

Dating Tips: 9 Signs a Guy Is a Keeper (GUY! THIS IS YOUR KEY TO BE "SUCCESS")

Think you've found The One? We asked relationship experts to help singles spot the clues that indicate serious boyfriend (and beyond) potential. Here's what to look for when separating the princes from the toads. By dating editor Ruby Madren-Britton for Glamour Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Sean Locke Updated: Sep 24, 2009

#1. Keeper clue: He has his act together

This seems like a no-brainer, but it's a good place to start. "It's very important that you two be able to have a lot of fun together, so a party boy or a screw-up will probably not work out for you," says Mira Kirshenbaum, a family and couples therapist and author of Is He Mr. Right? "No matter how charming he is, if he is still struggling to grow up, it will get very old, very fast."

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• Five Secrets All Guys Keep From You
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#2. Keeper clue: He puts you first.

Picture a delicious platter of grilled steak. Does your man offer it to you first to pick the best piece? He does if he's a keeper! "When it comes to taking the best piece of meat or offering it to you, that's a metaphor for how he'd always put you first the rest of your life," says Rachel Greenwald, author of "Why He Didn't Call You Back: 1,000 Guys Reveal What They Really Thought of You After Your Date."

#3. Keeper clue: He's not afraid of your germs.

You know a guy is really into you when he can't stay away, even when you're bedridden and snotty. "When you're sick with the flu, he says, 'Let me come over and take care of you,' rather than, 'Oooh, you sound really contagious... call me when you're feeling better,'" Greenwald says.

#4. Keeper clue: He's a family man.

He asks about your family, and he seems to genuinely want to hear about them. "Interest in your family shows that he thinks about you as a whole person, and he knows that being with you means understanding and accepting your relatives too," says Sarah Harrison, senior editor of yourtango.com.

#5. Keeper clue: He makes time for your friends.

In the beginning of your relationship, does your man show an interest in meeting your besties? And does he follow it up with a plan, like hosting a low-key dinner party? "Friends are an important part of your life, and his knowing them makes him more involved with you." Harrison says. "Plus, he'll have to deal with them at some point, so initiating it himself shows maturity."

#6. Keeper clue: He's your biggest cheerleader.

And she even has a poem:

When your guy calls your mom to tell her about your promotion before you do, that should tell you something. A man who is supportive of you and your goals is typically a guy who doesn't "feel threatened by your success," says Kirshenbaum. "He knows who he is and where he's going," which means he can ultimately be there for you.

#7. Keeper clue: He remembers the little things.

Does your man really listen to you? You'll know he's a keeper if you tell him you have a big scary work meeting and the next time you talk, he asks how it went. Or if you tell him you left your sunglasses at his house and he remembers them on your next date. "Following up on things you say to him means he pays attention to you -- always a good sign," Harrison says.

#8. Keeper clue: He's happy when you're happy.

This is the guy who "goes to a chick flick with you on Friday night rather than an action film -- not because he actually wants to, but because it makes you happy," says Greenwald.

#9. Keeper clue: He makes you the best you can be.

A guy who makes you feel like the luckiest woman alive -- like you can (and should!) be your confident, fabulous self -- is worth hanging on to. "It's not just about how you feel about him but more about how he makes you feel about yourself," Kirshenbaum says.

A Dream A Teaching A Realization

After few hours of preparing my final presentation, i slept in 4am ++.

Wow, it's really enjoy my work very much nowadays. Is this consider workaholic syndrome? Who's know. Searching over the net to get info and learn new things is really fun. Somehow, it is really tiring. Thinking of having my own workspace, so i can work day till night and having drink under the sky on a comfortable sofa, that's call bachelor life's style. Enjoying the stress and tension~

Without frus or nervous, back to my bed as usual. The time our friend bersahur, i slept.

I reach a place where i was wondering why people chasing at me, throwing weapon and Molotov cocktail at me, i felt no pain at all(of course la, dreaming ma). Then I hide inside a lovely mansion, but people use tank to make the mansion demolish. That time i realize I'm immortal which is invulnerable to harm. What was in my mind that time is i wanted to back to the time when the mansion is still as usual before this incident. Yes, i did it. I made my self back to the time. Yet, the same incident that people chasing at me, throwing weapon and Molotov cocktail at me. then i hide inside the mansion again. WAIT! isn't this just happened? I able back to the time but i unable change the incident nor stop it. I kept trap inside the circle for few time until i realize something. LET YOUR HEART BE PEACE, NOT STRUGGLING FOR SOMETHING MAKE YOU GREED FOR MATERIALISTIC, LET EVERYTHING GO AND LET EVERYTHING COME.

Finally, i able to stop it by not back to the time and continue my life as a mutant in that world. That world was in ruin and chaos, people like maniac, killing, and destroying whatever they saw. They are tired of me because they keep trying to kill me until they tired and run away, but wonder why i never do the same thing to them since i'm a immortal i can do whatever i want but didn't. I walk by a pirated CD shop. wow, amazingly, there are a lof of XXX cd on the table but no body was there. I think, in the internet have a lot of "same" type movie which we also unable to finish watching, what for buy this kind of movie again? Curiously, i steal a piece of the XXX movie and put inside my bag, but i wonder why? HAMSAP? haha. SEE, SOMETIME IN LIFE WE DO A LOT OF UNNECESSARY STUFF, BUT THOSE UNNECESSARY STUFF BRING US LITTLE FUN AND MEANING IN LIFE. WE MIGHT REGRET FOR WHAT WE DONE, BUT WE WILL NEVER REGRET THE HAPPINESS WE OBTAIN.

When i woke up, i realize i have 6 miss call from my teammate for presenting. I lost 10% mark for it, I done a lot 2/3 of the total work but i unable to finish it to present. For most people might regret it, but i felt happy because my work able to help my friend to present. Maybe due to how we think, if i still thinking that i regret. I will TRAP in the thinking of how people view me, assault me, but I'm ok with it. WE HAVE A LONG ROUTE TO CONTINUE, THE RESULT CAN'T PROOF EVERYTHING, WHAT YOU HAVE WITHIN MAY BRING YOU TO THE ROUTE YOU DREAM OF......